It has to be life time !!

A Reason, A Season, or A Lifetime?

People always come into your life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason,you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilleed; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on. When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends. LIFETIME, relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being part of my life.....

Best ads ever made

Right from the time when we had only one channel Doordarshan  on air to now when we have innumerable channels being telecast ed , there are some commercials which always remain close to our heart and are special. To list a few 
I Am a Complain boy , I am a Complain girl - The ad in which shahid kapoor and Ayesha takia used to come . Though as a kid i never liked complain but because of the ad i remember completing the full glass of milk at one shot - bottoms up 
Namak ho Tata ka , Tata Namak - A pinch of salt adds taste to life . Ab to Tata ka namak bhi khaya hain and Paisa bhi :)
Ho shuru har din aise ho shuru har pal aise - Nescafe . Although a lot can happen over a cofee But Nescafe is always different.
Lifeboy hain jaha tandarosti hai waha - Even though we have many international brands of soap available now days but still lifeboy  rules the market .
Jab ghar ki ronak badhane ho deewaro ko jab sajana ho nerolac nerolac  - When ever its diwali time or holi time and when its time to renovate your house with bright colors first thought which comes in your mind is Nerolac paints .
Rekha… Geeta…. Jaya aur Sushma sab ki pasand Nirma - Though all the four girls of the present day ad are super hot but no one can replace sangeeta Bijlani of the olden days ad .

Summer of 2012

Its summer in Bangalore again. Just march 1st and the temperature ranges from 18 degrees at night to 33 degrees in the morning. Once upon a time Bangalore was the hill station of south India and now it has become equivalent to a desert. Time to hunt  for all the stylish coolers , umbrella, Sunscreens ,hand gloves and all weapons to protect against the UV rays.
In this hot weather all you feel like doing is staying indoors, having lot of water melon, cucumber, coconut water & to add to your calories lot of cold drinks.

I am so reminded of my childhood days, when i used to just wait for the summers to come. As you will have morning classes 7 A:M to 11:30 A:M for a month. It was when we used to just wait for the summers to be really hot so that  the schools get closed a week early for summer vacations. Every day we used to go to school and wonder when will the Principal announce that ADM orders are out and all Schools need to close from Today To avoid any heat Strokes to the children.Polishing your shoes, arranging your books according to the timetable , ironing your uniform to avoid being late in the morning and hit the Bed at sharp 10 P:M . It was those summers when getting up at 5 A:M was a Routine. I Vividly remember my Parents and sisters bullying me every day to get up at 5 A:M so that you can see the Venus Planet which is only seen in summers during early morning.Well i do Trust their words  till date and keep hunting for the Venus Planet here in Bangalore too  but to my disappointment was never able to spot it.

When you are back from school Mom used to prepare Rasna and keep for all three of us . And me being the youngest was the first one to reach home as my school used to get over an hour before. The first thing i did was to open the refrigerator and drink all of it . And the next task in the list  was to fill the clay pot with water . Now the question is whats the story behind the clay pot ?  Well Since it was very hot at my home town the Streams, lakes & other small water bodies Dried up , so to quench the thirst of the Crows and birds i  filled water in a clay pot and kept it in the  garden. religiously Filling it every hour and watching it from a distance, So that none of the crows go back thirsty. Keeping a Track of the number and repoting it to my dad when he is back from work of the Number of crows which drank water from the pot.

Life was so beautiful that time where you never had to think twice to step out in the sun.No Fear of getting tanned or sun burn. I So miss those summers :(

Love - Much more than 2 vowels & 2 Consonants

What is love ? For few it is life , for few its friendship , for some others  its magic and so on. The list of adjectives never comes to and end. Some mite not believe in it but if you see it is present in some corners of their heart , the door to which they have closed . Love is much more than this .It is a feeling , which is not selfish , not proud , not rude , not self seeking . It Takes your life and a lot of courage and introspection to understand it . Love does not happen by chance or on first sight or  over a coffee date , or over a dance floor . It takes time to understand the other person and accept him or her with all the flaws , accepting the fact that not all are alike .It grows slowly, sinking roots first before branching and blossoming. It is not a silly weed, but a mighty tree that weathers every storm. When you love someone you realise that face is less important than the brain and body is less important than the heart . In loving some one we get inspired to better ourselves in some way or the other .

 Love should give you a positive impetus in life , a reason for your growth , for a smile on your face , a reason to celebrate and be happy . Two people in love should always look at  a common goal , they should compliment and complete each other . For instance if one person talks more other should be a good listener and vice verse . There are no half measures in love , you either love a person the way he or she is without changing him and with each and every cell of your body or you don't !! In the process you are reborn as a new human being better than before. One needs to understand that every person is unique and special. So when two people meet they should focus on good qualities and ignore the bad ones. All you need to do is little  adjustments with a  smile and not compromises and then life will really be beautiful . Also when we say we are looking for Mr Right then do remember that Mr Right is also looking for Ms Right . So polish yourselves in every possible way . Rejection requires only one reason but love requires complete acceptance . Its always easy to find a reason not to love someone but its always difficult to love someone with all your heart .

Fire - A Need of life or a reason for destruction

                                                                               

Fire - A Form of Energy which can devasted everything

In Hindu Mythology fire is considered as sacred and is worshipped . It is a need for the existence of human life . can we imagine surviving without fire ?

How will we cook ? A form of light .  But have we ever pondered over the fact that the same fire which is a need for sustaining can become a reason for extinction . The same fire which helps you prepare a meal for a day , which gives you the required warmth on a cold winter evening , the same fire which you considered sacred and keeping as proof you took oath with your life partner to stay together forever can become the reason for end  of all  forms of  life on the planet ?

According to the bible last time the world came to an end through water.

Everything got drowned in the water. And the earth was in a bad condition stinking  and smelling. God couldn see this so he decided that next time he will end the world with fire so that nothing is left over . Only ashes. That is why on a rainy  day when you see a Colourful Rainbow it signifies God's promise that the almighty will not let the world drown in water . So next time you see a rainbow make a wish because God is listening to you and protecting you.

29 th Feb 2012

Today is 29 Th Feb 2012 . A day which is not gonna come back in the next four years . And again when i will write on the same date situations will be different, place will be different , relationships and most probably relationship status too . Lets make the most of this day , this moment which is never gonna return . There are people who got married on this day , few  were born & among others are those who don't even remember its a  Leap year . For me it was just another day at work. After work went on shopping and then dinner at a nice place which is the common routine of the day . So i thought what is different that i have done today . In order to capture these moments i decided to write down the post today. Life is changing every moment and i am getting adapted to these changes slowly and smoothly . Over a period of time have realized that life changes the in the last leap year those people who mattered are no more in the scene now. May be same will happen in the next leap year too . But there are few people special ones who will stay no matter what . 

Fear of Losing

The fear of losing something or losing someone is the most difficult to overcome .

We human beings become fond of people, things , possessions and at times even relationships very easily .

At times its even difficult to acknowledge the fact itself that we are fond of or may be the more appropriate word to use here is addicted to something or someone . As we believe that we are independent in every aspect be it in terms of finances or relationships too. So to realize , acknowledge and change it is the most difficult part in the whole story . 

Right from childhood we have many fears in mind . Fear of not getting good marks in exams , fear of not being able to answer a question asked by the teacher, fear of meeting with an accident so not learning how to drive , fear of mispronunciation while reading out the news in the assembly in front of the whole school . And with age and experience these fears take different form and appear in your life . Now its Fear of loosing friends , your loved ones who matter a lot to you and have become an integral part of your life knowingly or unknowingly . The Worst of all the above is fear of loosing something which at the first place you never posses .

You fantasize and have a full story framed in your mind but the reality is way to different .Its like a ethiopian dream which will never come true . Now you realize that you are afraid of loosing something which never belonged to you . But The best part is Since its you who has made all these castle in the air its only you and no body else who can break it . Your mind compasses everything . It has all the questions doubts fears feelings and the answers to it too. Only thing is you need to seek the answer inside you since its you who has given birth to all the questions so only you can solve them !!!

A New begining

Its Feb 23 rd 2012 time 2:26 PM . It suddenly occured to her that she should start writing her own blog .
A place where she can freely express what she wants . So here she is Bubbly Anamika to pen down her thoughts .